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Sep 05

The Evolution of Everything 2: Getting Through Puberty

Maya Bohnhoff

From the beginning to the end of his life man passes through certain periods or stages each of which is marked by certain conditions peculiar to itself…

Similarly there are periods and stages in the life of the aggregate world of humanity which at one time was passing through its degree of childhood, at another its time of youth but now has entered its long presaged period of maturity, the evidences of which are everywhere visible and apparent. Therefore the requirements and conditions of former periods have changed and merged into exigencies which distinctly characterize the present age of the world of mankind. That which was applicable to human needs during the early history of the race could neither meet nor satisfy the demands of this day and period of newness and consummation. Humanity has emerged from its former degrees of limitation and preliminary training. Man must now become imbued with new virtues and powers, new moralities, new capacities. New bounties, bestowals and perfections are awaiting and already descending upon him. The gifts and graces of the period of youth although timely and sufficient during the adolescence of the world of mankind, are now incapable of meeting the requirements of its maturity. The playthings of childhood and infancy no longer satisfy or interest the adult mind. — Abdu’l-Bahá. Foundations of World Unity, p. 10

In the above passage, Abdu’l-Bahá puts mankind on the approach ramp to maturity. His grandson, Shoghi Effendi, writing decades later, speaks in several of his discourses of this time in history as the “coming of age of the entire human race”, and “the consummation of human evolution”. The key feature of this is a dawning awareness and conscious involvement with the idea that—as Bahá’u’lláh put it—”The earth is but one country, and mankind its citizens.”

Coming of age. 

The phrase put us squarely in the midst of our pimply, rebellious adolescence. A time in which an increasingly adult body is harnessed to a child’s mind. A time in which many teens question or even flout authority, doubt that anyone older or more experienced than they could possibly have anything interesting or important to say, and believe themselves to be both cunning and invincible (and, of course, darned good-looking, to boot).

A glance around the globe tends to reinforce this idea. The zeitgeist—at least in the western hemisphere—can be summed up in the pubescent anthem: “You’re not the boss of me.”

In some ways, as Abdu’l-Bahá and Shoghi Effendi have both noted, this is a Good Thing.

‘Abdu’l-Baha

In Foundations of World Unity (p. 83), Abdu’l-Bahá asks: “Shall man gifted with the power of reason unthinkingly adhere to dogma which will not bear the analysis of reason?”

Shoghi Effendi, meanwhile, speaks frequently of the need to overthrow the “outworn shibboleths” of dogmatic creeds. Questioning authority, asking why things are the way they are has a strong, positive potential … if those asking the question are honestly and actively seeking a better way to do things and not just a license to behave irresponsibly.

Here in the US, the idea that each man is an island is growing in popularity as almost a backlash against the growing awareness that there is such a thing as a global community. We fondly imagine that we are little universes each on our own and that our choices, attitudes and behaviors do not affect others.

I remember a college ethics class in which we were discussing drug use as a societal problem. The girl in front of me opined that if she chose to do cocaine and happened to overdose on it, it was no one’s business but her own—a victimless crime.

I said, “I didn’t realize you were an orphan.”

“I’m not,” she said, looking puzzled. “I have a family. What’s that got to do with anything?”

“So, if you OD on cocaine, none of them will be hurt by it? Your mom won’t wonder where she screwed up? Your dad won’t grieve for his little girl? What about the person who finds your body? What if it’s your best friend. You do have friends, right?”

She got my point. We can pretend to be islands all we want. but the reality is, we’re completely interdependent. And, yes, that challenges our sense of independent “islandness”. But, if that independence is a qualified independence or even a chimera, it’s hardly rational to pretend that it’s real.

The world is in a constant state of change as are our lives within it. We are required, every day, to grapple with new ideas, new attitudes, new responsibilities …

Ew. Responsibilities?

Aye, there’s the rub.

I have told each of my children as they approached puberty that if they want to be treated like adults (i.e., trusted to make sane, rational decisions and to control their momentary impulses) they must first act like adults. I’ve been a very lucky parent. My children have, for the most part, gotten any rebellious behavior out of their system while in elementary school and have taken to heart the idea that along with adult powers and privileges comes adult responsibility and accountability.

Mankind as a species … not so much. We seem to desire every privilege we can squeeze out of life, without responsibility or accountability. Whenever ill comes of our decisions, someone else (other human beings, or circumstances, or even God) must certainly be to blame. And more and more, a good many of us look to science to circumvent the need to evolve further as human beings.

To be sure, we have employed science—and its robot child, technology—well in many respects to give us evolutionary advances that have taken other animals eons to achieve. We can move faster than sound, literally move mountains, leap tall buildings in helicopters and even fly through space. We are Super-species. Go us!

But increasingly, thinkers among us want science to solve our moral conundrums. In any number of areas of human life—but especially in the consumption of substances and sexual behavior—an increasingly vocal minority looks to science to mankind from the results of its behavior. The suggestion that one might use one’s rational faculties to overcome animal urges (whatever it’s ganging up on the weak, lashing out at those perceived to be trespassing on one’s turf in some way, or sexual acquisitiveness) is not politically correct. The subtext of the zeitgeist at that level seems to be that humans ought to be able to indulge in any desired behavior and depend on science to dodge the consequences.

All in all, it’s a very adolescent attitude. Our relationship as a species with our Creator (or any authority figure) is very much like a teen’s relationship with a parent against which he is rebelling. We indulge in a myriad self-destructive behaviors, then ask why God allows us to do so. We even use God’s lack of direct intervention as proof of His non-existence.

I think most parents have had at least one episode in which a child did something the parent had warned them repeatedly against. The child’s refrain is often, “Why didn’t you tell me?” Or even “Why didn’t you stop me?”

The parent’s answer (as they wonder if they could have done more)  is “I tried. You didn’t listen.” Children aren’t muppets. And neither is the human race. Both are organic, evolving intelligences that, at some point, need to exchange the “playthings of childhood and infancy” for something that will satisfy, not just an grown up’s body, but a grown up’s mind, heart, and soul.


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Maya Bohnhoff

... is a professional writer, editor, recording / performing artist, and Baha'i. She lives in San Jose, CA.

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  1. Barney

    This is spot on, Maya. Humankind’s desire to have it all and take no responsibility has brought us to a tipping point. I think this passage from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh is apt (and, coincidentally, I was reading it this morning):

    Every man of insight will, in this day, readily admit that the counsels which the Pen of this Wronged One hath revealed constitute the supreme animating power for the advancement of the world and the exaltation of its peoples. Arise, O people, and, by the power of God’s might, resolve to gain the victory over your own selves, that haply the whole earth may be freed and sanctified from its servitude to the gods of its idle fancies—gods that have inflicted such loss upon, and are responsible for the misery of their wretched worshippers. These idols form the obstacle that impedeth man in his efforts to advance in the path of perfection. We cherish the hope that the Hand of divine power may lend its assistance to mankind and deliver it from its state of grievous abasement.

    In one of the Tablets these words have been revealed: O people of God! Do not busy yourselves in your own concerns; let your thoughts be fixed upon that which will rehabilitate the fortunes of mankind and sanctify the hearts and souls of men. This can best be achieved through pure and holy deeds, through a virtuous life and a goodly behaviour. Valiant acts will ensure the triumph of this Cause, and a saintly character will reinforce its power. Cleave unto righteousness, O people of Bahá! This, verily, is the commandment which this Wronged One hath given unto you, and the first choice of His unrestrained Will for every one of you.

    1. Maya Bohnhoff

      My oldest daughter and I were discussing this this morning as I was taking her to work. Our discussion concluded with a passage in the sacred texts that I’ve meditated on over the years and see, more and more, how it applies.

      The civilization, so often vaunted by the learned exponents of arts and sciences, will, if allowed to overleap the bounds of moderation, bring great evil upon men. Thus warneth you He Who is the All-Knowing. If carried to excess, civilization will prove as prolific a source of evil as it had been of goodness when kept within the restraints of moderation. Meditate on this, O people, and be not of them that wander distraught in the wilderness of error. The day is approaching when its flame will devour the cities, when the Tongue of Grandeur will proclaim: “The Kingdom is God’s, the Almighty, the All-Praised!” — Gleanings from the Writings of Baha’u'llah, CLXIV

      He also proposes, of course, that even something as prized as liberty needs to be had in moderation. We have laws that govern behavior in every culture in the world, which gives tacit agreement to this principe, but I’ve had people argue in principle what we practice in reality. If one were to take liberty to its fullest extent, there would be no prisons and no concept of murder, rape, or theft.

      We are a species that—having discovered how to bake a cake—wish to eat it and have it, too.

      In a sense, we want to put the genie—our humanity—back into the bottle. Or perhaps, the proper analogy is Pandora’s Box. In this case, it is not demons we’ve released, but potential. We can, as Abdu’l-Baha notes in his commentary, be kind, conscientious, trusting and trustworthy, tolerant, faithful, and selfless, but these things, alas, interfere with our quest for material pleasure.

      Fortunately, the bottom of the box still contains hope, and I think most of us realize that if we want to eat cake, we will have to continue to develop the capacity to bake it.

  2. Mark H.

    I sometimes think that Humanity — at least in the industrialized, developed and over-priveleged West — has surpassed even the adolescent, puberty stage. It is now more in the position of a belligerent 19 or 20 year-old, sitting on the couch, shoveling in cheetos, refusing to get a job, and loudly complaining that his parents are idiots, because they didn’t make things “perfect,” according to his concept of what that should be.

    1. Maya Bohnhoff

      Heh. Reminds me of that quote attributed to Mark Twain. Something to the effect that, when he was 18 and left home, he thought his father was the stupidest man he’d ever met. He was surprised when he returned three years later by how much the old guy had learned.

      I love the image of shoveling in the Cheetos :)

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